I have returned! Well, I never actually went anywhere, well I did but...ah, never mind, I'm here now, lol! A lot has been going on, and I couldn't quite find the time to check in, but I'm making time now, so be grateful...just kidding. Let's just dive right in, shall we?
Things with my bf, have been going well. He isn't really my boyfriend, but we sure act like it enough. I guess you could just say we're "boo lovin'", which in a sense means, we're talking and acting like a real couple, but aren't officially a couple. I don't mind that we're not officially a couple, only because he lives a thousands miles away from me, and neither of us want to mess up what we have (being close friends), trying to make a boyfriend, girlfriend relationship work long distance. So, I'm content where I am with him for the moment, just him being there for me, is more than enough.
Recently, (yesterday, lol), an old friend contacted me and we caught up, we'll call him Jon. Jon is a very nice guy, who I've known since kindergarden. We were in 1st, 2nd, 4rd, & 5th grade together, and this year he happened to be in my gym and health class. Jon and I of course grew apart over the last couple years, made very different friends, and honestly I didn't think he gave a rat's bum about me, or our friendship anymore. He obviously did, and contacted me via Facebook, and we caught up. We talked until almost 2 in the morning last night/this morning, and it was nice...catching up. Though through out the conversation it was apparent he was talking to me to get a quick hook up. Now since you guys don't know me personally, this maybe giving you the impression that I'm not in upstanding young woman. However, I am, and there's no way that I would just hook up without first being in a serious relationship with someone, and knowing without a doubt he & I were ready. Jon is a nice guy, he really is. He's no perv, but I'm defiantly not that easy, lol. So, being the straight up person I am, I told him, I wasn't like other girls he'd been with, that he wasn't getting anything from me unless I was in a serious relationship with him, now that's not me forcing him to date me, it's just laying all the cards out on the table, and telling him what's, what; setting the boundaries if you will.
Other than just enjoying my summer, everything else seems to be in order, I'll keep you guys posted.
Love,
Nik.
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